Announcing Katherine (Katie) Lyn Brouchoud

I just posted a slideshow of pictures, but here are some of the details...

Michelle began labor at 5pm on Thursday 3/12, these were light and far apart, and we weren't sure yet if this was labor or pre-labor contractions. Michelle had contractions all Thursday night and I tried to record the time of each one, but there were gaps in the recording for a few hours were I apparently fell asleep since her contractions didn't stop. Friday I took the morning off from work since we had a dr. appt at 8am. The doctor measured her at 3-4cm and said he'd probably see us in the hospital before the end of the weekend. Michelle continued having contractions all day Friday so I decided to stay home from work.

We went out to Wal-Mart to buy a stopwatch since my memory is so short that I was forgetting when the contractions started/ended before I wrote them down and to get a change of scenery for a bit. We started recording the timing of her contractions more accurately around 7:20 pm. At this point, they were around 6-9 minutes apart so we had some time to wait. Our plan was to wait until they were 5 minutes apart or her water broke. For a short period of time the time between extended, but we weren't sure because Michelle was going to the bathroom often and wasn't sure if she was having minor ones in the bathroom. There very well could have been more contractions in there that would have shorted up the time between. At around 9:30 pm I was estimating the contractions to be 6 minutes apart, but by 10:15 pm or so after she had several that were 3.5 - 6 minutes apart so it was time to go.

Michelle had a few more contractions while I packed the cooler and our bags into the car. She had another one in the garage as we were about to leave and 2 more on the short ride to the hospital. She had another one while we were waiting at the registration desk for a nurse escort. She was checked at 10:30pm and was 4cm and they slowed way down to about 8-10 minutes apart. The nurses assigned to Michelle during the night were Meagan and Ania. The nurses asked if we really wanted to stay vs going back home since Michelle would have to go onto the monitor if we stayed. After a short talk where I said that I really thought it was time to come and if we went home, we'd probably come right back in since I wouldn't know when it really was the right time, we decided to stay. We also felt more at ease about staying since they would allow Michelle to not wear the monitor and walk around if she signed a waiver. They also said that she could get up and stand and move around even if she was being monitored as long as they kept good readings. Around 11:30pm, her contractions started picking back up and were about 4 minutes apart so we were comfortable with our decision to stay.

Michelle was starting to lose her confidence that she would be able to make it all the way through the labor since she hadn't progressed all day. I allowed the nurses to test Michelle's blood so that she would be allowed an epidural if needed. The nurse said she could wait a long time until she was 8 cm before they wouldn't allow her to get it. This was good because it relaxed Michelle knowing it was available pretty much on command, but didn't have to commit just yet. I asked her not to make any decisions until after her next check to see if there was any progress. The next check was at 1:30am now on the 14th and she was 6 cm. With the good news that she was progressing, she regained her confidence that she could pull this off and there were no more times were she requested medication.

At 3:30 Michelle said that she felt her body pushing just at the peak of a contraction. She wasn't really feeling the urge to push, but more that her body would surge at the peak of a contraction and that if felt like it was a push. The nurse said that if she was pushing, then she had to stay in the bed. They also checked her during a contraction and said that she was now at 7 cm. Michelle's contractions were much more painful if she laid on her side so she was pretty much bed ridden on her back (with the bed in a sitting type position). After an hour or so, she became very uncomfortable sitting and her tailbone was sore, but she was stuck in the bed. Her contractions got closer together and much more painful; she was now going through "transition". Eventually sleep deprivation from this night and Thursday night was taking over and Michelle was starting to doze off between contractions. I thought that the contractions were slowing down and were less powerful so I talked to a nurse to make sure this was ok if she fell asleep and they slowed down. I was worried they would say she was "failing to progress" and push for drug augmentation or cesarean section. The nurse said that her body will have the contractions and do what it needs to do regardless of if she sleeps or not.

Michelle dozed off between contractions and even through a few between 4:30 and 6:30am. We both think she was still in transition, but was just too exhausted so she was able to sleep through part of the hardest phase of labor. I tried to stay awake to comfort her the times she did wake up, and I think I did ok. I did doze off a few times, but I think I was up for every contraction even the ones she slept through. The nurse came in at 5:30am and told me that Michelle would be checked again soon, but they got busy with other women in labor and didn't actually come until later. Michelle was pretty much done dozing off around 6am while we waited for the nurse to come and check her.

Finally the nurse came at 7am and checked Michelle and said she was between 7 and 8 cm and that her bag of waters was bulging. Michelle had a few more contractions and maybe the third after being checked, her water broke. She hurried to the bathroom while I hurried to unplug her from the monitor. I told the nurses and they came and cleaned up the bed. Around this time, the nurses changed to the morning shift and Darleen was now in charge of Michelle. Darleen is a certified midwife and was great for Michelle. She suggested a few positions that helped out a lot and was very supportive. She told Michelle not to hold back during her contractions and to push if it felt good to push. Prior to this, she wasn't yet trying to push since she was only 7-8 cm. The nurse checked Michelle a few times and she was initially at 8 cm, but after just a few contractions while being checked she said she was now at 9 cm.

Michelle started active pushing around 8:00am while I held one of her legs back and Darleen held the other back. This early pushing Michelle did on her right side since it now felt better for her to be on her side. I held up her leg as I put pressure on her tailbone for her comfort. The nurse began with the perineal massage. Around 9:00am, Dr. Miller came in and broke the bottom part of the table down in preparation for delivery. Michelle was now on her back in the typical pose for delivering a baby. The doctor had a large basin of cotton balls soaked in warm water that he was using to wash the baby as she crowned. Katherine Lyn Brouchoud was born at 9:12 am and was quickly given to Michelle. I cut the umbilical cord once the doctor had it clamped off. The placenta was delivered around 9:25 am.

Once Katie was born, there was a flurry of activity. The doctor sewed Michelle back up since she tore naturally. While this was going on, the nurses cleaned up the baby, did a glucose test (had to prick her foot for blood), weighed the baby and several other things I can't think of now. It wasn't too long until we had Katie to ourselves and the nursing tasks died down.

The birth was a huge success and Michelle was successful in having the drug free birth she had been working towards. We took "Bradley" classes for 12 weeks 2 hours a week learning how to relax and deal with the pain. Katie was born on March 14, previously known as Pi day (before becoming Katie's birthday) 19 days late (she was due 2/23) and was 7 lbs 4 oz, and 20 inches long. Her hands and feet had very wrinkled skin and her arms and legs were peeling slightly; a sign of being born late. Her belly and between her legs still had a lot of vernix, which meant she wasn't late. The maturity test also put her right at 40 weeks. Michelle's labor was 40 hours long, and she was pushing for about an hour. Katie is perfectly healthy and has latched on and started to feed. We were released from the hospital at 2:00 pm on 3/15. The dogs are very curious about Katie and have been anxious to sniff her. We've been letting them smell her a little at a time and they are doing well so far.